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Reader Question – Is it Okay to Prefer Hentai?

I like to watch/read hentai-anime/manga more than real life porn(a lot more actually), along side having a thing for catgirls/catboys and not afraid of shonen-ai (I don’t mind if it’s a girl or boy as a male myself) neither. But in my area it seems like I’m the only one (as far as I know) who is like this, and it’s hard to find a girlfriend/boyfriend because they all think I’m a pervert. I have read the articles on hentai on your blog, but it still left me with questions, So when I read how you helped people out of their worries, I was wondering if you have any kind of advice or anything to help me stand a bit more firmer for who I am and what I like.

I don’t think it’s weird to have a preference with regard to what type of porn you enjoy, everyone has certain things that turn their crank; for some people it’s huge breasts, for other’s it’s barely legal teens, for still others it’s transgendered sex, and for you (as well as many others) it’s H-anime rather than live-action porn.

I doubt you’re the only person in your area who likes hentai, but perhaps not many of the people in your circles have been exposed to it. Despite the popularity of cartoon shows that AREN’T for children (The Simpsons, Family Guy, Drawn Together, etc) many people still associate animation with entertainment for children. The idea of pornographic animation/drawings can make some people feel uncomfortable – even though it is clearly not meant for children in any way.

If you were going to introduce your love of hentai to a new partner I would suggest taking it slow; maybe watch some live-action porn with them and then mix in a little “mainstream” hentai (nothing too crazy, save the catgirls/boys and tentacles for later). Ease your partners new to h-anime into the idea that drawings can be just as stimulating as “normal” porn.

Of course, hentai isn’t for everyone; like I said above, everyone has their personal preferences and your lovers might never develop the interest in h-anime that you have. The best you can aim for is to have partner who at least accepts your porn preference, even if they don’t share it.

9 comments to Reader Question – Is it Okay to Prefer Hentai?

  • Rae

    I actually used to really dislike normal porn, but really liked hentai and “cartoon porn”. I now like all kinds of porn, but I never saw anything much wrong with liking hentai.

    And I’ve met some people who don’t like hentai themselves, but don’t care that I do…I guess it’s all about meeting the right people, yeah?

  • Gadfly

    God!

    You sick bastard!

    Something wrong with good, healthy, felching and golden showers in front of kindergarten classes? That’s just not sexy enough for you?

    *chuckle*

    Safe, sane and consensual — is all that is required. If a hentai porn fetish is odd — no one can argue that it is in any way more “harmful” than any average porn. Obviously, you’re not going to work well with a girl who doesn’t have a sense of humor about sex, love and life. *shrug*

  • exile

    prefering Hentai over porn is like prefering erotica over a porno-mag

    it’s just a preference, just remember that if you’re going to have the real thing, chances it won’t be anything like the Hentai (or porn for that matter).

    real girls don’t have tails, regardless of what a nice piece of tail they are. hehehe

  • Shay

    Rea & Gad – do I even need to say that you are exactly right? ^_~

    Exile – tsk, you have no imagination boy! Real girls can so have tails if they want.

  • Phalse Impressions

    I agree, naturally, with the above statements. Sex is so wide and varied that the tastes for watching naturally should be just as wide.

    Personally I don’t have much hentai in my collection but I was thinking of changing that. Are there any good suggestions for what would be a start for viewing?

    Shay I love the picture for this post. Where did it come from? Aside from your personal archive ;)

  • TexGuy

    re: Girls with tails: It’s AMAZING what modern cosmetic surgery can do.

  • Shay

    or a fancy butt plug

    or a belt + a little imagination

    ^_^

  • Frando

    i agree totally. live action porn does nothing for me but put a good picture of a catgirl in front of me and i’m away!

  • Shay

    Phalse – You could try looking up Sex Friend of F3 (frantic, frustrated, and female) those are two good starter titles. As for your other question, I don’t think the picture I used in this post comes from a video, sorry!

    Frando – catgirls, eh? nice

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