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“so I bought my girl a dildo at a local sexshop, and, I want to ask you, is it just because she’s never had a dildo inside her or does the dildo have to do something with it because she kept complaining it hurt, untill I took it out, and it accidentaly slipped, it got a nasty crack, so, yeah, it was kind of a waste.“
Dildos can be a little tricky, it’s always good to go with a smaller diameter for your first one. Sometimes thicker dildos can be uncomfortable when you’re new to using toys.
But it sounds like you two might be better off getting a cheaper mini vibe if you want a starter toy – it will be more fun, you won’t have to worry about it hurting your girlfriend (because you use it externally), and it will be cheaper. Some mini vibes you can even use together, while you’re having sex, like this one – which is a great bonus.
It’s also not a good idea to keep using your sex toys once they start cracking or breaking – a solid dildo might be okay, but if the casing of a vibe cracks you’ll want to throw it out or recycle it. You don’t want to risk any complications if your lube leaks inside and gets on the motor or batteries or, vice-versa, if any toxic chemicals start leaking out.
